Pullin' up this week is Daniel (P.R.I.D.E.) and clothing designer/ proud LGBTQ fam Shankie to talk… - Can you be an LGBTQ advocate and still rock with Chick-fil-a? - Thoughts on Asap Rocky Sweden Incident - Plus.. Shankie break down why she doesn’t believe sexuality should have labels, and Ejike disagrees… strongly. - Is there an ongoing trend of several lesbians wearing strap ons 24/7? - Thoughts on an Italian "medical professional’s" claims that homosexuality is tied to pedophilia and more… SHOW SUMMARY: Join Ejike Jamal and friend as they square off over hip-hop, news, black twitter debates, as well as hilariously explore gray areas within the culture. LISTEN: Apple:http://apple.co/2JcNRmP Google:http://bit.ly/2Li9PW6 Spotify:http://spoti.fi/2A9QVA1 SoundCloud:http://bit.ly/2OiVhYs WATCH: Youtube: https://bit.ly/2JbeRDj FOLLOW THE SHOW: Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/wethesafeplace.com Instagram: http:// www.instagram.com/wethesafeplace.com Official site: http://www.wethesafeplace.com Ejike Jamal | @ejikejamal | Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/EjikeJamal | IG: http://www.instagram.com/EjikeJamal GUESTS: Daniel | @d_bew | IG: https://www.instagram.com/d_bew/ Shankie | @iamshankie | IG: https://www.instagram.com/iamshankie

How does a black man who grew up within a homophobic culture adjust to raising kids in a world that’s progressively becoming more LGBTQ inclusive? Let’s talk about it.  Pullin' up this week is Peabody from "Social Complex" podcast as we get into…   - Was P really ready for fatherhood? Or is any man for that matter... - Was Chris Brown perpetuating colorism for his comments about "nice hair?" - Thoughts on the latest ice cream licking trends. Was 20 years too much for bioterrorism? -How would you react if Spider-man came out as being gay? -and more...   SHOW SUMMARY: Join Ejike Jamal and friend as they square off over hip-hop, news, black twitter debates, as well as hilariously explore gray areas within the culture.    LISTEN: Apple:http://apple.co/2JcNRmP   Google:http://bit.ly/2Li9PW6   Spotify:http://spoti.fi/2A9QVA1   SoundCloud:http://bit.ly/2OiVhYs    WATCH:  Youtube: https://bit.ly/2JbeRDj   FOLLOW THE SHOW: Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/wethesafeplace.com Instagram: http:// www.instagram.com/wethesafeplace.com Official site: http://www.wethesafeplace.com   Ejike Jamal | @ejikejamal | Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/EjikeJamal | IG: http://www.instagram.com/EjikeJamal   GUESTS: Peabody |  @social_P  | IG: https://www.instagram.com/social_p/ | Twitter: https://twitter.com/Social_P Social Complex podcast | @social_complex_   | IG: https://www.instagram.com/social_complex_/  | Twitter: https://twitter.com/Social_Complex_

Are black people today entitled to some form of compensation as a result of American enslaving their ancestors? Let's talk about it. 🤷🏾‍♂️ Pullin' up to the conversation are Rayvn “Poe,” L2, and Daneil as we get into... - Willow Smith being down with the polygamous lifestyle.. Oh.. and EJ might be “polycurious." - Megan the Stallion’s past “ homophobic" tweet resurfaces. Should Megan be cancelled? - Colonizer harassing black women by the pool, calls the cops, then blames it on… his Autism? - and more… SHOW SUMMARY: Join Ejike Jamal and friend as they square off over hip-hop, news, black twitter debates, as well as hilariously explore gray areas within the culture. LISTEN: Apple:http://apple.co/2JcNRmP Google:http://bit.ly/2Li9PW6 Spotify:http://spoti.fi/2A9QVA1 SoundCloud:http://bit.ly/2OiVhYs WATCH: Youtube: https://bit.ly/2JbeRDj FOLLOW THE SHOW: Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/wethesafeplace.com Instagram: http:// www.instagram.com/wethesafeplace.com Official site: http://www.wethesafeplace.com Ejike Jamal | @ejikejamal | Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/EjikeJamal | IG: http://www.instagram.com/EjikeJamal GUESTS: Rayvn | @iamthepoe | IG: https://www.instagram.com/iamthepoe/ Daniel | @d_bew | IG: https://www.instagram.com/d_bew/ “L2”

Do women only get credit for the positives of a relationship while men get credit for its failures? Let's talk about it. 🤷🏾‍♂️ Pullin' up to the conversation are Rayvn "Poe" and L2 as we talk... - Black Mirror's "Striking Vipers" episode and EJ introduces the term "gay adjacent." - OJ Simpson's major comeback through social media. - Tory Lanez pull a Jussie with his supposed stance for injustice? - and more... SHOW SUMMARY: Join Ejike Jamal and friend as they square off over hip-hop, news, black twitter debates, as well as hilariously explore gray areas within the culture. LISTEN: Apple:http://apple.co/2JcNRmP Google:http://bit.ly/2Li9PW6 Spotify:http://spoti.fi/2A9QVA1 SoundCloud:http://bit.ly/2OiVhYs WATCH: Youtube: https://bit.ly/2JbeRDj FOLLOW THE SHOW: Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/wethesafeplace.com Instagram: http:// www.instagram.com/wethesafeplace.com Official site: http://www.wethesafeplace.com Ejike Jamal | @ejikejamal | Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/EjikeJamal | IG: http://www.instagram.com/EjikeJamal GUESTS: Rayvn | @iamthepoe | IG: https://www.instagram.com/iamthepoe/ “L2”

So after binge watching the “shocking” doc series, “Surviving R. Kelly," Ejike Jamal and Des are left with many strong opinions on why this happened, how to separate the art from the artist, and should underaged sexual predators be punished... or treated? Pullin’ up to the conversation is the homie, Toon aka “Prince of Louisiana,” to break down documentary, and tackle many of the hard moral and ethical questions surrounding R. Kelly’s perception in the culture. Will people keep the same energy? SHOW SUMMARY: Join Ejike Jamal and Desiree as they square off over hip-hop, news, black twitter debates, as well as hilariously explore gray areas within the culture. LISTEN NOW: Apple: http://apple.co/2JcNRmP Google: http://bit.ly/2Li9PW6 Spotify: http://spoti.fi/2A9QVA1 SoundCloud: http://bit.ly/2OiVhYs WATCH: Youtube: https://bit.ly/2JbeRDj FOLLOW THE SHOW: Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/wethesafeplace.com Instagram: http:// www.instagram.com/wethesafeplace.com Official site: http://WeTheSafePlace.com WeTheSafePlace@gmail.com HOSTS: Ejike Jamal | Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/EjikeJamal | IG: http://www.instagram.com/EjikeJamal Desiree | Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/itsdesicakes | IG: http://www.instagram.com/itsdesicakes.com GUEST: Toon | Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/lousianatoon

Happy New Year Kings and Queens. New Year means new changes… This is a VERY different episode. Right before our off week during the holidays, an unsafe situation transpired in the studio while recording the Christmas Day episode, and things only seemed to further escalate off air, which ultimately lead to one of us leaving the show. Ejike Jamal reveals the ethical (and few petty) reasons for why he's ending all ties and how he plans to move forward into 2019.      SHOW SUMMARY: Join Ejike Jamal and Desiree as they square off over hip-hop, news, black twitter debates, as well as hilariously explore gray areas within the culture.      LISTEN NOW: Apple:http://apple.co/2JcNRmP   Google:http://bit.ly/2Li9PW6   Spotify:http://spoti.fi/2A9QVA1   SoundCloud:http://bit.ly/2OiVhYs    WATCH:  Youtube: https://bit.ly/2JbeRDj   FOLLOW THE SHOW: Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/wethesafeplace.com Instagram: http:// www.instagram.com/wethesafeplace.com Official site:  http://WeTheSafePlace.com  WeTheSafePlace@gmail.com   HOSTS: Ejike Jamal | Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/EjikeJamal | IG: http://www.instagram.com/EjikeJamal Desiree | Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/itsdesicakes | IG: http://www.instagram.com/itsdesicakes.com

This week we get into... Who's the "King of R&B" (removing morality and ethics out the equation)? Was Ebro wrong for pressing Kodak Black on his ongoing sexual assault case? Nicki Minaj's relationship WITH a registered sex offender, Drake and Kanye beef, and whether or not Cardi should take Offset back? And the bigger question, should women stay with men who cheat? SHOW SUMMARY: Join Ejike Jamal, NaNa|Man, and Desiree as they square off over hip-hop, news, black twitter debates, as well as hilariously explore gray areas within the culture. LISTEN NOW: Apple: http://apple.co/2JcNRmP Google: http://bit.ly/2Li9PW6 Spotify: http://spoti.fi/2A9QVA1 SoundCloud: http://bit.ly/2OiVhYs WATCH: Youtube: https://bit.ly/2JbeRDj FOLLOW THE SHOW: Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/wethesafeplace.com Instagram: http:// www.instagram.com/wethesafeplace.com Official site: http://WeTheSafePlace.com WeTheSafePlace@gmail.com HOSTS: Ejike Jamal | Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/EjikeJamal | IG: http://www.instagram.com/EjikeJamal NaNa|Man | IG: http://www.instagram.com/Nana_mannn Desiree | Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/itsdesicakes | IG: http://www.instagram.com/itsdesicakes.com

Des is out of town, but still holdin’ it down, Ejike Jamal and NaNa|Man talk...  Kevin Hart, and whether comedians should ever apologize for offensive jokes? Also, fake cheating photo of a Travis Scoot look-a-like groping a phat a** that’s NOT Kylie’s. Is the internet too gullible? Plus, pullin’ up to the “Safe Place" is our guy L2 to talk about being finessed out his money in the club, and things get HEATED when the topics of about relationships, oversensitivity, LGBT acceptance in the black community, privilege,  and more…  SHOW SUMMARY: Join Ejike Jamal, NaNa|Man, and Desiree as they square off over hip-hop, news, black twitter debates, as well as hilariously explore gray areas within the culture.  LISTEN NOW: Apple:http://apple.co/2JcNRmP   Google:http://bit.ly/2Li9PW6   Spotify:http://spoti.fi/2A9QVA1   SoundCloud:http://bit.ly/2OiVhYs  FOLLOW THE SHOW: Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/wethesafeplace.com Instagram: http:// www.instagram.com/wethesafeplace.com Official site:  http://WeTheSafePlace.com  WeTheSafePlace@gmail.com HOSTS: Ejike Jamal | Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/EjikeJamal | IG: http://www.instagram.com/EjikeJamal NaNa|Man | IG: http://www.instagram.com/Nana_mannn Desiree | Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/itsdesicakes | IG: http://www.instagram.com/itsdesicakes.com

This week, Ejike Jamal and Desiree get into... Thoughts on Meek's Mill’s new “Champions” album, Jay’s verse, and Rick Ross’s Tekashi diss on “What’s Free.” Feds catching a few of 6ix9ine’s "Tr3wey” threatening to “super violate 6ix9ine on the wiretap. Kevin Hart and Eniko posting their son's “Cowboys and Indians” themed party… in 2018. A convicted, um… BLACK MALE serial killer who confesses he killed 90 people and how the FBI believes he may be the biggest serial killer to date… and why EJ argues this is bad for the culture. Plus we try to figure out what the f**k's going on with the migrant caravan, the LGBT migrants, and more... SHOW SUMMARY: Join Ejike Jamal, NaNa|Man, and Desiree as they square off over hip-hop, news, black twitter debates, as well as hilariously explore gray areas within the culture. LISTEN NOW: Apple: http://apple.co/2JcNRmP Google: http://bit.ly/2Li9PW6 Spotify: http://spoti.fi/2A9QVA1 SoundCloud: http://bit.ly/2OiVhYs FOLLOW THE SHOW: Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/wethesafeplace.com Instagram: http:// www.instagram.com/wethesafeplace.com Official site: http://WeTheSafePlace.com WeTheSafePlace@gmail.com HOSTS: Ejike Jamal | Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/EjikeJamal | IG: http://www.instagram.com/EjikeJamal NaNa|Man | IG: http://www.instagram.com/Nana_mannn Desiree | Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/itsdesicakes | IG: http://www.instagram.com/itsdesicakes.com

This week, Ejike Jamal, NaNa|Man, and Desiree get into... - Jill Scott's fellatio techniques, plus Des reveals the secret to giving the best head.  - Bhad Bhabie (Cash Me Outside Girl) throwing a "drink" at Iggy Azalea in the club. - Thoughts on Yung Miami claiming she would beat her son for being gay, and how she argues that's not homophobic. (Aight, sis.)  - Breakdown of new (and probably last) Tekashi 69 interview.  and more... Oh, and NaNa|Man speaks on how he may have ALLEGEDLY been with the sh*ts back in the day in El Paseo. Yeah… The Problematic Safe Place: Join Ejike Jamal, NaNa|Man, and Desiree as they square off over hip-hop, news, black twitter debates, as well as hilariously explore gray areas within the culture.    LISTEN NOW: Apple:http://apple.co/2JcNRmP   Google:http://bit.ly/2Li9PW6   Spotify:http://spoti.fi/2A9QVA1   SoundCloud:http://bit.ly/2OiVhYs    FOLLOW THE SHOW: Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/wethesafeplace.com Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/wethesafeplace.com Official site:  http://www.WeTheSafePlace.com  WeTheSafePlace@gmail.com Ejike Jamal | Twitter: www.twitter.com/EjikeJamal | IG: http://www.instagram.com/EjikeJamal NaNa|Man | IG: http://www.instagram.com/Nana_mannn Desiree | Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/itsdesicakes | IG: http://www.instagram.com/itsdesicakes.com

Aight, what's more shocking? EJ admitting to crying after the first time he masturbated or NaNa|Man claiming he didn't jack off until college? And Des... well, she opted out.  This week Ejike Jamal, NaNa|Man, and Des get into…  Two female students jump a female teacher in class! And why EJ is not so sure?   Trump exposed for projecting lil d*ck energy by pulling CNN reporter Jim Acosta's press pass.    Another mass shooting...   Plus, White girls posing as black women online and in real life... Is this appropriation or admiration?   "THE PROBLEMATIC SAFE PLACE" AVAILABLE ON: Apple Podcasts | Google Play Music | Spotify | SoundCloud | Stitcher | iHeart Radio | TuneIn | Youtube   FOLLOW THE SHOW: @WeTheSafePlace on Twitter x IG Official Site|  WeTheSafePlace.com Inquiries? Hit us up: WeTheSafePlace@gmail.com   Follow @EjikeJamal on IG | Twitter Follow @nana_mannn on IG Follow @ItsDesicakes on IG | Twitter

This week Ejike Jamal, NaNa|Man, and Des talk… White women harassing black men? Cassie and Diddy breakup Netflix pulling the plug on Luke Cage.  Thoughts on Vic Mensa’s freestyle diss towards XXXTentacion on th BET Cipher. Was Vic wrong for dissing a dead man? Or Was BET wrong for choosing to still air this diss while X’s mom was in the audience?  Update on Drake vs. Kanye and Pusha situation- Is 40 the leak in OVO?  Does rap beef have rules? "THE PROBLEMATIC SAFE PLACE" AVAILABLE ON: Apple Podcasts | Google Play Music | Spotify | SoundCloud | Stitcher | iHeart Radio | TuneIn | Youtube   FOLLOW THE SHOW: @WeTheSafePlace on Twitter x IG WeTheSafePlace.com Inquiries? Hit us up: WeTheSafePlace@gmail.com Follow @EjikeJamal on IG | Twitter Follow @nana_mannn on IG Follow @ItsDesicakes on IG | Twitter